I know, I know. You should never dip your pen in company ink. I'm only gonna try to follow through with this because she is a temp and won't be around for long.
She's cute,a HB7, Asian,Young and Petite. Seeing as how my position at work keeps me constantly moving and busy, my interactions with her have been very short until today. I happened to share the same break with her in the lunch room. I opened her with something observational then switched to cocky/funny routines. I teased her a bit and did some push/pull to create attraction. I think went into qualification and after teasing her about being a boring girl, tried to see if she would qualify herself to me.
She says she is at home when not at work, but she is busy because she works all the time. She refused to tell me what her other job was and said it's a secret. The only job I can think of for a young girl to make money at home is webcam modelling. Right away I tell her it has to be nude modelling,jokingly, with a smile on my face. She doesn't say no, but still won't spill the beans. I get her laughing and We're vibing good off of each other, then I shift my attention away from her and give it to others in the room.
A little later I bump into her and tell her I want to hear more about her secret double life, she says maybe she'll tell me outside of work, but it really belongs outside of the work place. I have seen several IOI's (Indicators of Interest) from her. She overly laughs at my jokes, has been watching what I eat for lunch and will comment on it later, If I body rock away from her while talking to her she keeps stepping forward,ETC.
I want to at least number close her to progress things forward, but rushing that too soon would telegraph too much interest and she might not give up her number. Right now I'm treating it as Social Circle Game, something that PUA's Braddock and Mr. M specialize in. It's basically working on inner game and knowing that if you make a little progress with your target, it's ok because you'll see her again and can make even more progress over an extended period of time.
I think my best bet is to Kino her a little bit more and when she's comfortable, invite her to an outing first as opposed to a date. This way I can show off my social value with my friends,get them to wing me and tell her stories to increase my value, then take things from there.
I'll keep everyone updated.
Thanks,
If you stay forward with your intentions then it won't be such a surprise when she realizes that you like her. It's also less likely for her to friendzone you. I hope it works out well for you.
ReplyDeleteI agree with Micheal, a lot of women love play hard to get guys, it keeps them interested. You also want to keep in mind that you don't want to play TOO hard to get. Good luck!
ReplyDeletehopefully its worth all the work you are putting into it
ReplyDeletegood luck with the girl!
ReplyDeleteWhen the company ink is a petite asian, it's acceptable to dip. Several times. A night.
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ReplyDeleteI think you're just over-thinking everything lol
ReplyDeletetry not to hurt anyone
ReplyDeleteDon't do it. Did it when I worked for a clothing store. Made things awkward afterward because eventually it got around to the female manager, who happened to be her friend.
ReplyDeleteGood luck man, keep it slow though
ReplyDeletejust good luck bro, remember this, u are the man, the boss
ReplyDeleteDo it. You might regret it if you don't at some point later.
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Good luck, just never tell her about the blog!
ReplyDeleteSounds like quite a catch there. I'd go for it.
ReplyDeleteYou are probably wrong. I bet she works at convenient store or something haha. You might just be over-analyzing :p
ReplyDeleteinteresting cant wait to see how this turns out
ReplyDeleteGo for it, and good luck (;
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ReplyDeleteIf she's asian, ask her about where her family came from, might show to her that you're really interested, and kudos for the girl :D
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